The unmarried have themselves confessed some of their other problems; the temptation to selfishness for instance. It is interesting to note in St. Paul's letter to the Corinthians (1 Cor.7) that he extols celibacy because it gives opportunity to dedicate more time to serve the Lord. The time‑factor means that they have extra time at their disposal, and by inference can do what they want with it. To whom are they accountable? This must be remembered by those who exercise pastoral care.
I was listening to a lady speaking on the radio very glowingly about her single state. "There is no one to tell me what music I can listen to, or tell me when to put out the light when I'm reading in bed at 2 o'clock in the morning!" It all sounded very happy and liberated, but one could not help but detect a sense of selfishness in it all. She had no restraints, not even the saving element of a kindly soul to remind her that she might be disturbing others.
Selfishness can also produce irritability and impatience when the single person has to conform to the social pattern, and after all, living in a family has its restraints which are good for us, because it develops self-discipline and thoughtfulness for others, which are essentially Christian virtues. I am sure that our unmarried friends are well aware of these things and could probably list a few more, so it would be good in their own interests not to spend too much time alone, even although they may enjoy it. They should keep in circulation with friends and acquaintances. This will ensure balance and maintain a right perspective on life.